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Would You Go On a 5-Hour First Date?

info@hypebae.com (Hypebae)  Thu, 04 Apr 2024  Hypebae

According to the Upward dating app, slow burn dating is the latest trend to hit its app -- and its working.

It seems every week there's a new dating trend and this week's moment might be controversial. Slow burn dating is the opposite of every fire sign's fav: falling in love overnight. For Upward lovers, slow burn dating is the five-hour date, versus the usual 90 minutes over coffee or dinner. Approximately "half of the couples who found love on the app, had an epic five-hour first date," the brand shared.

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Of these brave singles, about 80% reported talking about family and the future. Others reported discussing shared hobbies and interests, which pro tip: is a great way to ideate next date ideas. But it seems 40% of them had an advantage: they felt an instant spark when they met.

Rachel DeAlto, the brand's chief dating expert, says the secret to slow burn dating, or in this case, surviving a five-hour date, is all about "taking the time to really get to know someone before deciding if they're worth pursuing."

If you're a fan of the virtual vibe check or pre-date chat, this is your moment to shine. Make sure you chat before the date and align on the basics before investing in a five-hour date. Upward shared, "83% of these couples did just that, and keeping in line with Gen Z preferences." 62% vetted initial chemistry via Facetime or video chat to make sure they weren't headed to another awkward dinner."

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